8mm seems rather large.
Are you trying to do fell seams? Theyre suprisingly easy without tape, try sewing some scrap first to get a feel for it rather than trying to over complicate the process.
If your doing a simple overlap seam as found on many modern kites (and why not they're stronger) all you need is some 6mm sailmakers tape. Bainbridge, Kayospruce etc all do nice tapes. Personally I prefer Bainbridge over 3M which seems to be everyone elses preference. Avoid buying tape from dressmaking shops since some have paper carriers which go mushy if your kite gets wet.
For just general tacking stuff in place while you get started, eg attaching leading edge tape, Pritt Stick is marvellous and washes off. I guess this is similar to elmers glue sugarbaker suggests.
As for gumming up the needle, use bonded thread - the silicon stops the bogies clinging to the foot/needle and sew faster (you'll sew straighter if you can build your speed up). I apply extra silicon polish to the thread too.
Rather than relying on tape to hold things in the right place buy good quality ripstop that isn't all slippy and stretchy and you may find you dont need to rely on tapes/glues/pins. The dimensional stability of PC31 / Chikara makes life *much* easier than some stretchy balloon fabric. Also getting your machine tensioned correctly for ripstop makes sewing much easier.
Another afterthought - if you've been watching those sailrite vids on youtube, dont assemble your sail like that, kite ripstop is too stretchy and you'll find one panel has mysteriously grown and they doesn't line up at the end. Get a full sized drawing of your sail (or half sail) lay it on a table and put some 3" strips on it in various spots. Peel the paper off then repeatedly roll your hand over it till it almost loses its tackyness. Now lay your kite panels on the paper line them all up and stick down to the de-tackyed tape to lightly hold it in place. Apply tape along a panel edge but dont stretch it as you pull it off the roll or it will pull back and shrink/bunch the panel edge. When you've done a few edges flip the other panel from underneath to ontop, peel the paper off and gently dab to stick together - dont run your finger along it or the panel will stretch. When you've dabbed all the way along then you can rub it down. Repeat for all edges until you've aseembled a sail half.
Hope that helps rather than confuses